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A Leadership Mentor Reflects

Below is an end of year reflection written by a mentor participating in the YMCA Black & Latino Achievers Leadership & Mentoring program, a collaborative project by the Hayes-Taylor YMCA of Greensboro and the Center for Creative Leadership.

I’ve worked for two great organizations that empower and support youth, the YMCA, and now CCL—both places to earn a living just like anywhere else. Over the years I’ve discovered that the real magic lies in what their teachings and philosophies have the capacity to DO inside of people.

I was drawn to this program because I have experienced firsthand the impact that mentor(s) (or lack thereof) can have on a person’s trajectory in life. I have had many role models and mentors, but two who have left indelible footprints on my young soul and inspired me to do the same in any capacity I can while we are together for such a fleeting time on this planet. Both passed away, too soon, and suffered great illness at the end of their short lives.

Their lives first spurred my passion for improving health care one person at a time, in a time when AIDS and cancer were new and scary unknowns. Their leadership and mentoring brought out the best in me, challenged me, believed in me, and through their trials I learned a depth of empathy and connection with others that continues as a bittersweet gift. I have also seen the lack of mentoring on people’s lives. This too has reminded me of my dedication to this service, because without support to dream, grow, and encouragement for development, life can seem insurmountably tough.

This program consists of one half day each month during the school year, delivering remarkable impact and unexpected beneficial ripple effects for months and years to come for its participants. The curriculum is leadership essentials, aimed at high school youth, and creates a safe space where being your truest best self is refreshingly encouraged. We learn about Direction/Alignment/Commitment, head, heart and feet, learning curves, goals, social identity, our vision, and our “spark”- what makes us feel truly alive.

As a mentor you go through the experience of learning and doing just as the Achievers in the program do, the synergy flowing both ways from mentor to mentee as time progresses, and the sessions fly by in a blur. I am in awe of how this program has touched me. The Achievers have coached me through some really challenging times in my life and checked in with me, leading and mirroring back the gentle spirit and values of the program. They have given me direct unsolicited feedback that has led to career decisions, reminding me what I excel at when in the busyness of adulthood I had forgotten.

Many Saturday afternoons, motivated after sessions, I researched some of the leaders that were conversation starters, pulling my Nelson Mandela autobiography off the shelf, watching a Spike Lee film or notes from my African American studies. I dusted off my guitar and sang again. The most telling impact this program has had is the peaceful joy that comes from the alignment of head, heart and feet into a living, breathing authentic self. The process of allowing for direct practice of these principles is transformative, and arguably more powerful than any other program I’ve been a part of.

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Val's Visual Explorer (TM) pictures help her describe her own leadership journey

This year we chose images or words that represented where we were on our leadership journey, and one for where we are headed. A perfect example of the simple yet profound work we do in this program. I am humbled and honored to walk in the path of my mentors, and so privileged to witness your extraordinary leadership journeys along the way.

Namaste!
Val

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Additional impact data about mentoring from this program

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Val with her "family group"

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Mentor recognition at annual end of year program banquet